Learning that your child has progeria can be emotionally upsetting. Suddenly you know that your child is facing many difficult challenges and a shortened life span. For you and your family, coping with the condition can involve a major commitment of physical, emotional and financial resources.
Some helpful resources include:
- Support network. Your health care team, family and friends can all be a valuable part of your support network. Also, ask your health care provider about self-help groups or therapists in your community. Your local health department, public library and trustworthy sources on the internet may be helpful in finding resources.
- Support groups. In a support group, you'll be with people who are facing challenges like yours. If you can't find a progeria support group, you may be able to find a group for parents of children with long-term illness.
- Other families dealing with progeria. The Progeria Research Foundation may be able to help you connect with other families who have a child with progeria.
- Therapists. If a group isn't for you, talking to a therapist or someone in your faith community may help.
Helping your child cope
With progeria, your child is likely to feel different from others as the condition progresses. Over time, emotions and questions may change as your child becomes aware that progeria shortens life span. Your child will need your help coping with physical changes, special accommodations, other people's reactions and eventually the concept of death.
Your child may have difficult but important questions about progeria, spirituality and religion. Your child also may ask questions about what will happen in your family after they die. Siblings may have these same questions.
For such conversations:
- Ask your health care provider, therapist or leader from your faith to help you prepare.
- Consider input or guidance from friends you meet through support groups who've shared this experience.
- Talk openly and honestly with your child and your child's siblings. Offer reassurance that fits with your belief system and is appropriate to the child's age.
- Recognize when your child or siblings might benefit from talking to a therapist or a faith leader.